Quotes from the book "The let them theory"
I really loved this book, I may go and find more books by author Mel Robbins. Here are some quotes that made me stop and read again. When you stop managing everyone else, you will realize you have a lot more power than you thought. You have just unknowingly been giving it away. If your friends are not inviting you out to brunch this weekend, let them. If the person you have really attracted to is not interested in a commitment, let them. If your kids do not want to get up and go to that thing with you this week, let them. So much time and energy is wasted on forcing other people to match your expectations. The truth is, if somebody else you're dating, a business partner, a family member, is not showing up how you need them to show up, do not try to force them to change. Let them be themselves because they are revealing who they are to you. Just let them, and then you get to choose what you do next. All human beings have a hardwired need for control. Feeling in control ...